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What does a Woman REALLY Want?

Whether you are a woman or a man, as a human being you have this picture perfect soul mate!! As a child, a woman is told Cinderella and Snow White stories and made believe that she is to find Mr. Perfect or Prince Charming. 

Then she enters the real world, just to realize that she is not perfect herself so why is she looking for Mr. Perfect. However, women with their rather romantic nature, even if they are the realistic type, still dream of this perfect man. 

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I would like to think that these soft natured, kind and good hearted women are looking for a good person who would love and cherish them only but this can never be the case. Women still want the whole package; love, money, education, career and anything else that’s available in this world. It's not the fact that women are devils and men are angels because as we talked about it some weeks ago, men tend to want it all as well. 

As a teenager, I remember one of my closest friends telling me that her soul mate has to be kind, with a good personality, funny, good job, enough money and a family standard that suits hers. I also remember that as the person I am, I spoke my mind, and asked her what she will be offering him in return. But do we often think about what we plan to give this special someone?? Not that much if you ask me; however, women be easily redirected through love and the biggest example is this same exact friend of mine. 

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Here is a list of things that every woman looks for when she searching for her mate obstructed from the women themselves:

- Someone who can show their emotions; women are known to spill what’s inside more than enough; however, men are the total opposite of that. Even if sometimes your woman wouldn’t want to hear the truth, she would prefer knowing what is on your mind rather than be left in the blank.

- Even though women hate being the dark, this does not apply when a woman asks you if she looks fat in a certain outfit or whether if she is prettier than your ex. So stop claiming that you don't know if women want the truth or not; it's pretty obvious.

- Support and kind words are just as important as bringing her this watch she wanted for her birthday. It's not a 24/7 request but women like to feel appreciated often.

- The worst thing about men is their inability to detect the bad mood alert; everyone knows that.

- Try using a more spontaneous attitude; women like to think that their partners exerted an extra effort to surprise them with some flowers or with a dinner in this special place of yours. 

- Money, fame, personality, career, car, huge house and most importantly the looks…okay that was a lame joke of mine.

One last thing, remember that you are not supposed to know it all; that’s the fun of starting a relationship with someone, so stay tuned for surprises that can never be unveiled and enjoy!!